Latest Reflections

The List and the Life

A reflection on productivity, unfinished to-do lists, and learning to meet ordinary days with mindfulness, compassion, and a little more grace.

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What We Take In Without Noticing

While walking on a treadmill, I noticed how much anger and chaos I was absorbing from screens around me, even with music in my ears. A reflection on awareness, calm, and what we take in without noticing.

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Purpose vs. Presence

I tend to “walk with purpose,” which often means hurry. This reflection explores mission mode, what I learned on solo backpacking trips, and a simple 5% slower practice to come back to the moment.

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Alone and Lonely

For a long time, I did not enjoy being alone with myself. This reflection explores the difference between being alone and being lonely, and what changed along the way.

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“I’m Fine!” – The Mask With the Smile Pasted On

Many of us wear a smile that says “I’m fine” even when something inside is not. This reflection explores the quiet cost of pretending, the masks we learn to wear, and the relief that comes when we find places where honesty is allowed and being human is enough.

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Sitting With the Waiting

In the hours before becoming a grandfather, I found myself reflecting on presence, family, and what we carry forward from the generations before us. Sometimes the most meaningful moments are found in the waiting.

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My Journey is Descriptive, Not Prescriptive

I’m a former Christian pastor who now aligns with Buddhist principles and practices, and this reflection shares how I got from one place to the other. My journey isn’t a blueprint—it’s simply an honest look at where life has led me.

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Reflections on Meditation

Meditation has quietly shaped the way I move through my life — helping me stay present, loosen my grip on old stories, and respond with more clarity instead of reactivity. This reflection explores the two simple practices that continue to anchor me, both in recovery and in everyday life.

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