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The Voice That Says, “Who Do You Think You Are?”

July 11, 2026 No Comments

Even after years of recovery and public speaking, the voice of self-doubt still visits me. I’ve learned that growth isn’t about making that voice disappear. It’s about learning that I don’t have to believe everything it says. Fear may still come along for the ride, but it doesn’t have to drive.

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When Control Is Really Fear

March 22, 2026 2 Comments

For a long time, I wanted to be seen as the one who was excelling. This reflection explores how the need to appear capable, wise, or put together can sometimes be fear in disguise, and how healing asks for honesty instead of performance.